Our Wedding Day


The Newlyweds

Our first Anniversary in Panama City (25 weeks pregnant with Joshua!)

Our first baby!

Our first home (as non-renters)

Our second anniversary


Our second baby

Our second home!

Wow, look how much we've done in 3 years! Flight school, massage therapy school, 2 babies, 3 moves, 2 new homes and a whole lot of happiness!!

Every year (for the past 3 anyway) I have been amazed when our anniversary comes around. Have we really been married that long?! Most days, I still feel like we're newlyweds - what a fun feeling! 3 years may not sound like long to someone who's been married for 10, 40, or even 60 years but when I think back on our wedding day, it just doesn't seem that long ago.
Here is a letter that was special enough to us to include in our wedding program, a reminder that our individual relationships with our Savior Jesus Christ are not only far more important than our marriage, but also pivotal to its success.
"Dear Friend,
Everyone longs to give himself completely to someone, to have a deep soul relationship with another, to be loved thoroughly and exclusively. But God, to a Christian, says, No, not until you are satisfied, fulfilled, and content with being loved by Me alone, until giving yourself totally to Me, to have an intensely personal and unique relationship with Me alone, discovering that only in Me is your satisfaction to be found, will you be capable of the perfect human relationship that I have planned for you. You will never be united with another until you are united with Me, exclusive of any other desires or longings. I want you to stop planning, stop wishing and allow Me to give you the most thrilling plan existing – one that you cannot imagine. I want you to have the best. Please allow me to bring it to you. You just keep watching me, expecting the greatest things, keep experiencing the satisfaction that I AM! Keep listening and learning the things I tell you. You just wait, that’s all. Don’t be anxious. Don’t look at the things you want. You just keep looking off and up to Me or you’ll miss what I want to show you. And when you are ready, I’ll surprise you with a love far more wonderful than you could dream of. You see, until you are ready (I am working even this moment to have both of you ready at the same time), until you are both satisfied exclusively with Me and the life I have prepared for you, you will not be able to experience the love that exemplifies your relationship with Me, and this perfect love. And dear one, I want you to have the most wonderful love. I want you to see in the flesh a picture of your relation with Me, and to enjoy materially and concretely the everlasting union of beauty, perfection and love that I offer you with Myself. Know that I love you utterly. I am the Almighty God. Believe it and be satisfied."
And here are the vows we prayed about, wrote and made to one another in the presence of the Lord on our wedding day. We're so thankful that He has helped us to keep them daily ever since.
Craig's vows
"I promise that as long as the two of us live, I will readily accept my privilege and responsibility as the spiritual head of our home. I will be the initiator of spiritual matters in our new family by leading our devotions, by setting the example of holy and godly living before you and our children, by seeking the Lord diligently concerning our welfare as a family and by striving to keep my personal walk with Christ fresh and intimate. I also accept the responsibility of protecting you and our family from any threat to their physical, mental, emotional or spiritual well being. I will willingly provide for our home and make it my practice to trust in the Lord and turn to Him for our every need. I promise to do my absolute best to order my priorities so that the Lord Jesus will be first, you will be second, our children third and our ministry fourth. I promise to love you as an act of my will for the rest of my life. I choose you over every woman I have ever met or ever will meet to be my wife. As long as I live, I will do my best to always encourage, edify and inspire you to heights of holiness in your lifestyle and depths of commitment to our precious Lord Jesus."
Kim's vows
"I promise that as long as the two of us live, I will readily accept my privilege to be your wife and helper according to God’s ordained plan for our lives together. In doing so, I will strive to always encourage, edify and inspire you to heights of holiness in your lifestyle and depths of commitment to our precious Lord Jesus. My hope in you will be the confidence I have in trusting God for our future. I also trust in the gifts and abilities He has given you to be my husband, I trust in your commitment to His purposes in our life, and I trust in your desire to be the spiritual leader of our family. Because of the respect I have gained for you, and because of your heart for the Lord, I joyfully pledge to you my submissive spirit, under the authority given to you by God. In knowing you as a man after God’s own heart, I pledge my joyful obedience to your leadership.
I will always honor you as the head of our household as Christ is the head of the church. I give myself totally and unselfishly to you to satisfy, fulfill and love you all the days of our lives. All my life, I promise to love, bear and raise our children, with you by my side, and nurture them to love and serve the Lord. I believe with all my heart that our marriage is not only our desire, but the Lord’s desire as well. I choose you over every other man to be my husband for the rest of my life. I pledge all my love to you, knowing that it is only perfected by our Lord Jesus, who will allow us to experience all this and more by His marvelous grace."
Craig's flying tonight and Joshua's going to daycare on Saturday so we'll get to celebrate this weekend (probably with chick-fil-a and a trip to the bookstore!) In the meantime, we get to celebrate being married every day and get to be extra thankful that's Craig's not overseas.
Thank you, Craig, for being a more wonderful husband and father than I ever could have asked for or imagined! Your loving wife